Dating your boyfriend

I’m not sure if anything will come of it but I know you dated in the past and I thought you should know.”Let me say once more, it’s never going to be the best idea you had, but if you honestly do believe their ex is your future love of your life, here’s how to have the best shot at keeping the friendship.

Jennifer Aniston and bestie Courtney Cox were both romantically linked with Counting Crows frontman Adam Duritz - and Katy Perry and Taylor Swift both had relationships with John Meyer (though that one did cause Bad Blood).

Simply say, “Look, I just thought you should know that (their exes name) and I have gone on a few dates.

You’ve been sleeping with him for three months and you’re not sure you’re exclusive.

You’ve been boyfriend/girlfriend for six months and he hasn’t said “I love you.” You’ve been a couple for a year and a half and he’s never hinted at a future.

Being reliable isn't just something he saves for his bros. So, when you text him "I'm so tired today," he responds within minutes (not a day later) with a "Me too. "There's never a shortage of something new to talk about.

It's only been four dates, but you already can't wait to tell him about your day and listen to him recount his.

But this IS what happens when a man is falling in love with you.

If this isn’t happening in a reasonable amount of time – a few months to become exclusive, a half a year to say he loves you, references to a future pretty much the whole time – you’re putting yourself in the precarious position of being in an unequal dead-end relationship. Even though this video is free…don’t discount the value of it.

One of the most frequent questions I receive is about your frustration with the entire dating process and understanding what’s going through the minds of men.

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