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” Since I didn’t consider this wealthy man’s once-a-week phone calls and occasional casual, home cooked meals much of a pursuit, I retorted, “Are you?” In other words, he didn’t feel he needed to tell me he was attracted to me or thought I was pretty or sexy.

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After my May 28 post "12 Cold Facts About Being Super-Hot," some of my good-looking, male, professional friends said, "It is difficult being a hot professional guy too." These were their chief complaints. Of course, I want her to be attractive, but when you connect with someone, she becomes beautiful, because you see things no one else does. She is not technically beautiful, and she says she needs to lose a few pounds, and I guess she is right. She is brilliant, kind, strong, interesting and passionate woman.

Noah, a young cardiac surgeon who looks like he walked into the O. There is no fun in easy women." This is understandable in terms of the brain, because dopamine encodes on the anticipation of reward, not the actual reward. "But what I want in a hookup and what I want in a girl I seriously date are very different.

But if you have the kind of attractiveness that some find pretty and others find average, I bet you don’t feel you hear “You’re very pretty” too many times.

I think some men hold back telling a woman she is beautiful (or pretty or sexy) because they don’t want to come across as fawning, smarmy, unctuous or gushy.

As I discussed in “He had me from ‘You’re gorgeous!

’” I was enamored with this guy from the get-go, but his salutation was only part of the enticing package.

So what about those of us who aren’t classically beautiful?

Using the last guy’s logic, since finds you beautiful, you must hear this all the time and have grown weary of hearing it.

Some men tell you they think you are attractive on the first or other early dates. For two months I dated a man who never said he thought I was attractive.

In frustration at his aloofness, one day I said to him, “I don’t even know if you find me attractive.” He said, “I’m pursuing you, aren’t I?

And what have you done when a man you’ve gone out with for more than a month is stingy in this area?

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