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She is my oldest so this is a whole new world for me. They text each other every day and have even talked about sex.
Incidents,such as opening the front door,at the exact moment my date was giving me a goodnight kiss. The problem we had ,was telling him exactly where we were going. If she doesn't use good judgement,and leaves you to fret,without contacting you,then i'd share the consequences with her. There will probably be times,they meet up with others and make it a group date,but at 17 Shes mature enough to date alone. My daughter is 17 and she has to be home by 11 on weekends and usually isn't allowed out during the week except if there is a set plan. in high school and although she oftens complains she is the only one with a curfew I know she knows it is for her best. and no matter what, even as she approaches 17, she is still in high-school, right? ALSO, the boy should be making appearances at your house too... If you have a curfew it is to be respected, and if not, then (fill in the blank.) We can discuss whether we think teen sex is a good idea, but the fact of the matter is, what we think may not dictate what our kids do.
We took the alternative,kissing goodnight parked in front of the house,only to have the garage light flicked on and off like a beacon!!! The following weekend I'd be sitting watching tv with dad! If we told him we were going to a movie,then he say" ok, the movie is 2 hours" "It takes you 15 mintes to get home" I'll give you an extra 15 in case. I always allow the boys at our home and they are not allowed in bedrooms without the door open. Also, it's important for her to feel free to also go to her Dad for any advice also. and/or with a distinct plan and not just carousing around town. and since he is 18, he should be fully expected to be mature about it, and communicate with you too, his "girlfriend's" Parents. Take your daughter to an ob and have them go over std's birth control etc.
I always take the blame for not letting her do anything she doesn't want to do. I also don't allow the younger ones to go our 1 on 1, my oldest is 23 and engaged and they still do not hang out in her bedroom and have no privacy. I always tell my kids that while I may not approve of all their choices, I'll always love and approve of them.
They also are waiting for marriage and this rule assists them in waiting and making their wedding and marriage more sacred and special. L., Here are some links/articles about teenage dating Helpful tips to Help Parents with their dating teenager I think the curfew needs to be set based on the activity, but as a general rule there is no reason to be out later than 11, weekends only. No later than , and only if all obligations, chores, homework etc are done.
It looks like my 16 year old (17 in Dec.) daughter is starting her first relationship with a boy (just turned 18). Do any mothers out there have any advice for me as far as setting rules about dating for my daughter.
I'm interested in what other mom's have gone through and what works and doesn't work. They see each other every weekend and since he doesn't have a car yet they have to get rides from us parents which means they don't stay out real late.
They really don't want it, but just have an idea in their head that "everyone is doing it, so we have to") How to stand up and say no if she feels uncomfortable or is feeling pressured is the best thing you can do for her (and your own peace of mind).
HI L., One thing I think my parents did very well is to make me comfortable having my boyfriends at their home.
FYI - only hearing the male side as I teach at an all boys school, but the truth is somewhere in the middle of how late and how often they are out.
Also, if you haven't, talk to her about what is fair - jealousy, etc....
You would be suprised at the number of male students I have who feel it is okay for them to talk to another girl and have female friends while dating someone, but they don't believe the girl they are dating should have male friends or hang out with males except for them. I also love the suggestion about mixing up the dates - some family nights, some group nights, and some couple excursions - as long as you continue to monitor where and with whom, I think all should go as smoothly as can be anticipated.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating